Questions to ask when you are first dating
I want to do as much as I can to avoid heartbreak, painful consequences, and naïve mistakes.
As I think about dating for the right reasons, in the right season, for the glory of God, I’ve considered five questions to ask myself before I start dating — five indicators that I’m ready (or not) to date. Here is someone who is living, breathing, chocolate-and-flower-giving proof that you’re interesting and attractive. But if dating is of your validation, it indicates soul-damaging idolatry.
We’re here to help, so stay tuned for our good dating questions to ask a guy, but also questions not to ask a guy ever especially before you date him.
If you are thinking this is one of the questions not to ask, then you are so wrong.
Your petals might be beautiful, but if you don’t have any nectar then the bees are just going to fly away. It can prop up an intimacy that has no foundation to sustain it.
In marriage you begin to rub off on each other, subtly taking on traits and characteristics of the other.
Does this thought excite you or does it make you feel like you just digested a can of the before mentioned Play-Doh? And you need to have your own identity beyond your spouse. If you don’t want to become like the person you’re dating, should you be dating?
She is the author of This Changes Everything: How the Gospel Transforms the Teen Years (2017). Jaquelle Crowe is a 19-year-old writer from eastern Canada.
She’s a graduate of Thomas Edison State University and the editor-in-chief of The It’s because I’m waiting to date until I can marry, and I’m not ready yet.